Suggestions to Live in Harmony
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Suggestions to Live in Harmony
First published on September 11, 2003.
Original in Spanish under the title: "Sugerencias para Vivir en Armonía", English translation byLuis Prada.
Your life is the result of your beliefs; your way of thinking and feeling, you are creating the conditions and happenings of your daily living. Thought and feeling are the creative power in man, believe it or not, that acts as a magnet, attracting of the external to you all what is necessary to materialize in the world about you, that which is compatible with your thoughts. "What you believe, turns into truth for you." It is that it is THE TRUTH, but it will be for you. Observe then how it has been and it is your life until now, and get your own conclusions, then ask yourself if that is what you want for the future.
Next I will give you some suggestions for a happy life, in peace and harmony, according to my own experience. Ponder on them and extract all what be useful to improve the quality of your life..
1) AS SOON AS POSSIBLE ABANDON THE VICTIM POSTURE… GET OUT OF THE "POOR ME."
2) LEAVE ASIDE WHIMS.
3) GIVE UP THE HABIT OF COMPLAINING AND CRITICIZING
4) STOP SEEING AT AND SPEAKING ABOUT THE DARK SIDE OF LIFE, AS IF IT WERE THE ONLY REALITY.
5) LEARN TO ACCEPT WITH LOVE THINGS THAT WE CANNOT CHANGE.
6) HAVE POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND NOBLE FEELINGS.
7) STOP LIVING RECALLING THE PAST.
8) LEARN TO FORGIVE YOURSELF AND FORGIVE OTHERS.
9) LIVE IN THE PRESENT.
10) BE AUTHENTIC TO ONESELF AT ALL TIMES.
11) DO NOT LIVE IN THE FUTURE.
12) DO NOT LIVE ONLY FOR ONESELF, DO NOT LIVE ONLY FOR OTHERS, WHEN THESE ONES CAN MANAGE BY THEMSELVES.
13) HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF AND IN THE PROCESS OF LIFE (FAITH)
14) LEARN TO BE IN HARMONY WITH ONESELF.
15) ENJOY SILENCE AND THE MOMENTS OF SOLITUDE.
16) TAKE TIME TO REST, ENJOY, RELAX AND MEDITATE.
17) BE NOT POSSESSIVE NOR DOMINEERING.
18) DO NOT TRY TO CHANGE OTHERS.
19) DO NOT WORRY…GET BUSY!
20) LIVE FROM THE ESSENTIAL.
21) BE SINCERE WITH YOURSELF AND DO NOT NEGOTIATE WITH OUR OWN PROBLEMS.
22) DO NOT BLAME OTHERS FOR EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS AND ASSUME YOUR OWN RESPONSIBILITY.
23) KNOW TO RECOGNIZE YOUR OWN MISTAKES AND DEFECTS.
24) WORK INTERIORLY FOR SELF-IMPROVEMENT.
25) DO NOTFEELSUPERIORNORINFERIORTOANYBODY.
26) DO NOT COMPARE YOURSELF WITH SOMEBODY ELSE.
27) DONOTWORK TO FREE YOURSELF OF GUILT, FEARS AND ATTACHMENTS.
28) ACCEPT ONESELF AS ONESELF IS.
29) DO NOT TRY TO CREATE UNNECESSARY NECESSITIES.
30) DO NOT LIVE COMPETING.
31) DONOT TELL YOUR PROBLEMS AND MISFORTUNES TO PROVOKE PITY IN OTHERS.
32) DONOT LOOK FOR BEING THE CENTER OF ATTENTION AND SPEAK THE LEAST ABOUT YOURSELF.
33) SPEAK LITTLE, PRACTICE SILENCE AND LEARN TO LISTEN.
34) DONOT INVADE OTHERS’ INTIMACY, CREATE YOUR OWN AND WATCH OTHERS MAY THEM NOT INVADE YOURS.
35) LOVE ONESELF AS ONE IS.
36) LEARN TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN WHAT WE LIKE …AND WHAT IS CONVENIENT FOR US.
37)DO NOT JUDGE OTHERS.
38) BALANCE EMOTIONS.
39) DO NOT WAIT FOR OTHERS TO CHANGE SO WE DO, OR THINGS, SITUATIONS OR ATTITUDES WE SHOULD CHANGE.
40) DONOT LEAD OTHER’S LIFE OR PRETEND THEY BE HAPPY ON OUR WAY.
41) DO NOT GIVE THE INFORMATION OTHER IS NOT READY TO RECEIVE.
42) DONOT BE GOSSIP-AND-BAD-NEWS CARRIER.
43) DO NOT BURDEN OTHER WITH YOUR PAINS AND PROBLEMS.
44) CHANGE THE COMPLAIN FOR THE THANKFULNESS TO LIFE.
45) BE THE CARRIER OF HAPPINESS AND GOOD TIDINGS.
46) DO NOT ACT BY IMPULSE AND LEARN TO REFLECT OVER ALL THAT HAPPENS TO YOU.
47) DO NOT PUT THE ATTENTION IN WHAT MAKES US HARM, BUT IN WHAT BENEFITS US.
48) DO NOT LOOK FOR THE APPROVAL OF OTHERS TO FEEL YOURSELF WELL.
49) FIND OUT WHAT YOU WANT FROM LIFE AND AIM TOWARDS THAT BUSH WITHOUT GIVING UP.
50) MORE THAT PROSECUTING OTHERS TO DO JUSTICE, TRY TO BE JUST YOURSELF.
51) DO NOT SOW DISCORD IN THE NEIGHBOR’S HEART, NOR ALLOW IT IN YOUR OWN.
52) DO NOT LEAD AND KEEP YOUR THOUGHT IN THOSE MEMORIES THAT EXACERBATE HATE AND RESENTMENT BUT IN THOSE THAT HELP US GET OUT OF THEM.
53) DO NOT DISCUSS TO IMPOSE YOUR IDEAS… LIVE THEM YOURSELF!…
All these are suggestions aiming towards LIFE, PEACE and HARMONY.
We cannot receive all of this if we live in opposition to such suggestions. It is true that we have Free Will and that each one of us can choose how to live, but it is also true that each one will have to be in charge of the consequences of his or her election. Each one will receive multiplied on behalf of LIFE exactly what has been given out, it is a Cosmic Law, it is the Law of Cause and Effect that nobody can elude, heredo not work ranks nor gratuities, THOSE (laws) are operating always for all and each one of us. These Laws never fail, sooner or later the ball we threw will come back to us. Thus we are not just when we runt on and complain saying that Life is unjust; we react thus by ignorance of the Laws of Life since in reality we are reaping with obligation what we sowed voluntarily. GOD cannot stop us because He has given us Free Will to do our own history as unique individuals we are and He won’t contradict Himself, isn’t it? For that He has sent us Teachings of Life for Life, through the great spiritual Masters of all times.
«They point us the way… never force us…»